Originally Posted by
Merlin1958
Well, I see what you're trying to say, but you have to remember that we are all human's (well maybe not Bin Laden) and as such are inherently flawed. No one is perfect and no matter how hard we try no one ever will be. Take that to the bank.
Sure, we can aspire to perfection, but it ain't gonna happen. Additionally, when you're dealing with something this hienous, this horrible and this senseless it's a bit, almost unfair, unrealistic to think that folks are gonna start here. I lost people I knew and dealt with. Hell, any other day and I coulda been there myself. My brother was NYPD and a responder. Until you have to deal with something like that first hand, you can't even begin to understand the range of human emotions that kick in. I, for one, uprooted my family, from a place I grew up in and lived happily for some 45 odd years and moved 3,000 miles away largely because of that incident.
Maybe this just ain't the thread to get into that discussion in? Use some of that "Enlightened Consciousness" to cut the folks that are still hurting from that act 10 years ago a little slack. What do you think?
If you hadn't said "well, maybe not Bin Laden", that first paragraph would have been exactly right, and I agree with the rest of it. I'm not perfect myself, nor do I pretend to be--but at the same time that's no excuse for not trying to be better. No one can be perfect, but EVERYONE can be BETTER. And so what gives any of us the right to decide what the threshold is for when someone can no longer be considered human? We don't--none of us do. If you're willing to concede that no one is perfect, how does calling Bin Laden inhuman mesh with that idea?
We'll never achieve perfection on our own, no, but if we strive for it we won't fall as short of the mark. I'm aware that it's hard, and I don't expect people to change overnight--but it's precisely because it IS so heinous that it's important not to let it get to us that deeply. I'm sorry for your losses, and I don't know what it would be like to lose someone in that way myself, although I have lost two grandparents to death already (not the result of criminal activity, thank God). In fact, I want to address that to everyone here: I am sorry for anyone who lost loved ones in 9/11, and I sincerely hope they find the strength to get past the hurt and go on. But that won't happen if we allow ourselves to hate--that prevents us from ever getting past it.
If I forget the fact that many (if not most) who express such sentiment have lost people in 9/11, that's my own imperfection right there, and I apologize. And as I say, I sincerely hope they can find the strength to get past it and continue with their lives. But I will never be convinced that another death, even that of bin Laden, is any reason to celebrate, and I will feel sorry for anyone who thinks otherwise. I'm sorry for anyone who doesn't want to listen to the truth because of emotional hurt. But I still hope that they can realize the truth and thereby overcome their negative feelings.