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I am seeing Letti's point full on now.
And what she says is exactly WHY I tend to forgive. It's more for me than it is the other person. I hate to hold grudges, it makes me physically ill sometimes...to just let it go, forgive, move on...it's cathartic.
You must be a valuable soul.
No, I wouldn't say so. I just have a very guilty complex and this is how I have learned to cope with it. I feel guilty when I am angry, I have to learn to let go. It's a personal choice for me. In some ways it's almost selfish.