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    Default RIP Bill Bender-AKA Merlin 1958

    It is with a heavy heart that I notify everyone of the passing of William Bender II
    Known here as Merlin1958.

    Bill passed away this morning.
    His family is being very tight-lipped about things.
    There will be no services.

    I have temporarily turned the site color to black.

    If I become aware of more information, I will share it.

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    Thank you...Bill...legendary

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    RIP Bill. It was an honour to have known and met you.
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    That is extremely sad news, I really, really liked Bill!
    He did me some some wonderful favors!
    I'm sure if there is intelligent life somewhere out there in the universe, they are wise enough to stay away from us.

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    Very sad news. RIP Bill and condolences to the family.

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    RIP Bill

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    Was always good to me, RIP Bill

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    Sad news - always enjoyed chatting with Bill and reading his opinions. I had the opportunity to get a few books from him and also send him a few. I am pretty sure the GRRM AGOT I sent him went to his son. We will miss you Bill
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    Very sorry to hear this. Didn’t know him but always enjoyed his posts. RIP
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    You haven't heard from me in quite a while but I just received this news.

    It is devastating.

    Bill was one that seemed to always have a smile in his heart and his mind. Even when he was going through his hard times, he could find the where-withal to cheer up others. He never failed to have a positive attitude towards life in general and others in particular. You rarely heard him bitch about anything.

    He was quite the promoter and salesman. I won't forget his trademark 'LOL"! It fit his personality to at T!

    If anyone is so inclined, He used to request donations be made to Shriners Children's Hospital. It seems like a nephew (or some young relative) was taken care of there.

    Best Wishes -
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dolso View Post
    You haven't heard from me in quite a while but I just received this news.

    It is devastating.

    Bill was one that seemed to always have a smile in his heart and his mind. Even when he was going through his hard times, he could find the where-withal to cheer up others. He never failed to have a positive attitude towards life in general and others in particular. You rarely heard him bitch about anything.

    He was quite the promoter and salesman. I won't forget his trademark 'LOL"! It fit his personality to at T!

    If anyone is so inclined, He used to request donations be made to Shriners Children's Hospital. It seems like a nephew (or some young relative) was taken care of there.

    Best Wishes -
    Dick
    By the way - someone sent me a PM that I'm unable to open. I think it's been 3 years since I've posted here - I lost all the Passwords and the knowledge to navigate this site.

    I'll be donating to Shriners in his name and sending condolences to his home and family.

    LOL to Bill
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    How interesting/odd/ironic/mildly comforting that my 40,000th post is about Bill.
    I have a lot to say, but for now let's just recognize that Bill was a polarizing figure. He and I fought like brothers (not physically). We had many a disagreement, but always came back to the fact that we loved each other.
    Bill could (and often did) piss a person off. Not long after, Bill would apologize and make great efforts to mend fences. Some described his personality as approaching bipolar. Not being a clinical psychologist, I could not make the diagnosis.

    Nonetheless, Bill, despite his faults was a very good person. He helped me on numerous Fundraisers for The Haven Foundation, and also wanted to give to The Shriners Hospital (they treat very sick children at little to no cost to the parents).



    Bill has several children (William Bender III, and at least one grandchild (William Bender IV) that I know of. He doted on his grandchild the last few years of his life (and the first few years of the grandchild's life).


    There will never be another Merlin1958

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    Quote Originally Posted by Randall Flagg View Post
    How interesting/odd/ironic/mildly comforting that my 40,000th post is about Bill.
    I have a lot to say, but for now let's just recognize that Bill was a polarizing figure. He and I fought like brothers (not physically). We had many a disagreement, but always came back to the fact that we loved each other.
    Bill could (and often did) piss a person off. Not long after, Bill would apologize and make great efforts to mend fences. Some described his personality as approaching bipolar. Not being a clinical psychologist, I could not make the diagnosis.

    Nonetheless, Bill, despite his faults was a very good person. He helped me on numerous Fundraisers for The Haven Foundation, and also wanted to give to The Shriners Hospital (they treat very sick children at little to no cost to the parents).



    Bill has several children (William Bender III, and at least one grandchild (William Bender IV) that I know of. He doted on his grandchild the last few years of his life (and the first few years of the grandchild's life).


    There will never be another Merlin1958
    Are you sure we're talking about the same guy? In my trips to see Bill, I never saw an indication of being Bi-polar and never saw the problems others seemed to have.

    Opinionated? --- yes.

    New York sense of humor? -- yes.

    Willing to 'bust your balls'? -- yes.

    Did he piss people off? -- sure, everyone does at some point but never to the point of alienating a person.

    Bend over backwards to help and encourage anyone that deserved it? -- ALWAYS!
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    So sorry to hear about Bill (Merlin).

    The end of an era!
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    Very very sad. RIP buddy.

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    Really sorry to read this. Great guy. Really admired his generosity.

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    Such sad news. Bill was always wonderful to me and he will be missed. Rest In Peace Merlin1958. 💔
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    My true condolences to the family, if they should read this.
    Bill was always an interesting one, he will be missed by many.

    I purchased not to long ago a Different Seasons HC from/thru him. (not really sure)
    If Jerome is interested in auctioning it, we can use all the funds for DT.org in his memory.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Cook View Post
    My true condolences to the family, if they should read this.
    Bill was always an interesting one, he will be missed by many.

    I purchased not to long ago a Different Seasons HC from/thru him. (not really sure)
    If Jerome is interested in auctioning it, we can use all the funds for DT.org in his memory.



    Great idea. We are going to create a rebound Different Seasons to commemorate Bill's time here. It will be auctioned off with half the proceeds going to The Shriner's Hospital, and half towards our annual fundraiser here. More news to come when I get the art.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Randall Flagg View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Cook View Post
    My true condolences to the family, if they should read this.
    Bill was always an interesting one, he will be missed by many.

    I purchased not to long ago a Different Seasons HC from/thru him. (not really sure)
    If Jerome is interested in auctioning it, we can use all the funds for DT.org in his memory.



    Great idea. We are going to create a rebound Different Seasons to commemorate Bill's time here. It will be auctioned off with half the proceeds going to The Shriner's Hospital, and half towards our annual fundraiser here. More news to come when I get the art.
    Excellent idea. It feels really weird visiting this week. It’ll be good to pay respects to Bill like this. Perfect way.
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    I don't have many pictures of Bill, but here is one from a Los Angeles event with the Rock Bottom Remainders. Bill of course is the tallest person in the pics. I'll leave it to others to figure out who else is pictured.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Randall Flagg View Post
    I don't have many pictures of Bill, but here is one from a Los Angeles event with the Rock Bottom Remainders. Bill of course is the tallest person in the pics. I'll leave it to others to figure out who else is pictured.


    Just thinking about Bill. This pic represents a great night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Patrick View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Randall Flagg View Post
    I don't have many pictures of Bill, but here is one from a Los Angeles event with the Rock Bottom Remainders. Bill of course is the tallest person in the pics. I'll leave it to others to figure out who else is pictured.


    Just thinking about Bill. This pic represents a great night.

    Sigh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Patrick View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Randall Flagg View Post
    I don't have many pictures of Bill, but here is one from a Los Angeles event with the Rock Bottom Remainders. Bill of course is the tallest person in the pics. I'll leave it to others to figure out who else is pictured.

    Just thinking about Bill. This pic represents a great night.

    Sigh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Randall Flagg View Post
    I don't have many pictures of Bill, but here is one from a Los Angeles event with the Rock Bottom Remainders. Bill of course is the tallest person in the pics. I'll leave it to others to figure out who else is pictured.


    It was an honor to be there with you all and to be at the last Rock Bottom Remainders event. Bill was a sweet man. He was always very nice to me. He had a strong personality, but i believe he always meant well. He will be missed. He meant something to me though I barely knew him.

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