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    Default How many dates before sex?

    OK, how many dates should it take before you get to first base, second base, third base, and can slide into home?

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    That depends on if you're a whore, if you're really drunk, or your own beliefs on pre-marital sex.

    Because I don't believe in marriage, I can answer this without saying "you should wait until you're married."

    I think it depends on the chemistry you have with the person, and if its great, you should give yourself time to get to know them. This should, depending on the kinds of questions you ask and how comfortable you are, and/or if you hang out as friends normally between dates, be
    about six or seven dates, doubled it you aren't friends outside the relationship (which I highly recommend being, because lovers should be friends as well).
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    I think it just varies between individuals. I'd put no number on it myself.
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    How many licks does it take to get to the tootsie-roll center of a tootsie-pop?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CPU View Post
    How many licks does it take to get to the tootsie-roll center of a tootsie-pop?
    Apparently, it takes 252.
    http://everything2.com/index.pl?node=Tootsie%20Pop

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    Dates?
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    I don't even have to know her name and you want to know how many dates?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cozener View Post
    I don't even have want to know her name and you want to know how many dates?

    edited for accuracy
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    towerguard and Cozener crack me up.


    If the first date goes well, there is no reason you shouldn't get a kiss.
    No, let me revise that....if you think you're going to have a second date with the person, then you should get a kiss.

    As for rounding the bases and heading home.....really depends on the people involved and chemistry.

    I know that is a lame answer.

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    hmmm... I think looking at the answers people are giving I'm gonna keep my slutty past out of this one!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Odetta View Post
    hmmm... I think looking at the answers people are giving I'm gonna keep my slutty past out of this one!

    Oh PLEASE tell us more....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Odetta View Post
    hmmm... I think looking at the answers people are giving I'm gonna keep my slutty past out of this one!

    That is EXACTLY what I thought too!

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    Oh, no. We want details.
    The Awesomest fled across the desert and The Awesomer followed.

    If you rescue me
    I’ll be your friend forever


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    If you don't provide details ladies...how can we believe you had a "slutty" past?

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    Let's just say you don't have to go on a date to have sex....with a stranger....who looked like Tarantino.

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    Erin, I see you in a totally new way.





    Slut.
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    let's just say that a lot can happen on the first date...

    You know in the movies when a guy and girl have sex and the girl gets all lovey-dovey afterwards and wants a commitment and the guy gets that "oops!" look on his face? Well, I've given that look!
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    Monte...

    But seriously, to answer the question, when I went the date route, I usually waited until the 3rd or 4th date to have sex, if I was interested in the guy. That is usually what the majority of my friends do as well.

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    hmmm...
    is it OK to have sex with someone you're not really interested in just because you want to have sex?
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    I say yes. But i'm one of those people who see's love and sex as two different things.

    My boyfriend, on the other hand, is not. He says there is no way he could have sex with someone he didn't love.

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    It is fine to have sex if you are not interested in them. So......if you're looking......

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    I am absolutely lost or old-fashioned. I mean I can't even kiss a man if I don't love him a lot. It's too intimate. I know I am a loser.

    Roland would have understood.

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    No you are not!

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