Yes it is. I know I am thoroughly enjoying the conversations.
To hit on the forgive and forget notion, well, I don't think we can ever really forget a wrong done to us, but I don't think you...
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Yes it is. I know I am thoroughly enjoying the conversations.
To hit on the forgive and forget notion, well, I don't think we can ever really forget a wrong done to us, but I don't think you...
Hey, I'm proud of your thoughts, even if I don't get them myself all the time...hehehe
But what I was trying to say is Roland might do well by listening to that song...it almost written for people...
This whole conversation reminds me of a song, "The Grudge" by Tool.
If you read the lyrics it's about the same thing. Actually the song is saying that this world's lack of forgiveness is what is...
You must be a valuable soul. :rose:[/QUOTE]
No, I wouldn't say so. I just have a very guilty complex and this is how I have learned to cope with it. I feel guilty when I am angry, I have to learn...
I am seeing Letti's point full on now.
And what she says is exactly WHY I tend to forgive. It's more for me than it is the other person. I hate to hold grudges, it makes me physically ill...
In that case, yes, I could forgive him. If Jake was me, meaning if Roland had dropped me, I would have forgiven him. But I'm that kind of person. I can forgive just about anyone...doesn't mean I...
I don't really think it's my place to forgive Roland. He didn't really ever do anything to me personally...the other characters and himself maybe.
I think the big thing is for Roland to forgive...