Getting Hitched

[Nerak]

Well, since Spencer has made his news known...might as well announce mine.

Most of you know that I am expecting a little one next month :panic:.
Baby's daddy and I have decided to make it official and are getting married tomorrow night.
Yeah, I know, it's a Monday, but he works at the airport and has Monday and Tuesday off! LOL
My kids are beyond excited and love him to pieces, as do I.

So, As soon as I have pics, I will post them in this thread!

Here's to love!!! :huglove:

[sarah]

Congratulations!!! I'm so happy for you both.

[NeedfulKings]

Congratulations!!!!

:couple:

[Matt]

Very much congrats to you. I know this is a dream come true for you.

[Randall Flagg]

Karen,
The best of wishes to you and the Groom.




Even if you are a Red Sox and Patriots fan.
http://img128.imageshack.us/img128/2663/raiderrq5.jpg

[Jorge]

Congratulations, Karen! Finally, a Monday someone can look forward to! :D

[Nerak]

Yeah, I am a Sox and Pats fans!!! When's the last time the Raiders won anything?!?! LOL :P

Thanks all, it is very much a dream come true, Matt. Been in love with him since high school. He's been my best friend and now is going to be my life partner!! :wub:

[Hannah]

Congrats, Karen! :nana:

[johnny]

congrats!

[ZoNeSeeK]

Congratulations Nerak! All the best :)

I'm getting married in february next year - and am quickly getting over all this wedding planning :) Eloping is looking more attractive every passing week. Is there a way we could just not involve two mothers? :)

[Odetta]

Congrats!

[ZoNeSeeK]

How long have you been married for O?

[Ruki]

congrats karen! i hope you two have a great life together, it sounds like you're already off to the best start anyone could hope for.

[LadyGan]

Congrats!:)

[Bethany]

Hurray for Karen!

Karen's knocked up.

[Brice]

Congratulations Karen! :nana:

[Nerak]

Bethany! LOL :rofl:

There is a way to not involve mothers, ZoNe...tell them to but the hell out!!! LOL

Actually, both of our mothers are gone. I think that they would have been happy for us. His mother loved me and my mother felt the same about him. It's at least nice to know that they knew we were great friends!

[wizardsrainbow]

Oh Karen, am SO SO happy for you. Huggles to you and Congratulations!!

[Erin]

Yay Karen! I'm so glad to hear about the marriage! Have a blast tonight (it IS your wedding night after all!)

[Rjeso]

Congrats and best wishes!

[Patrick]

:nana: Congratulations, Karen! I'm very happy for you. :dance:

[ZoNeSeeK]

Well you're probably a married woman by now (its 9:31am on tuesday here), I hope it all went well! :)

[Nerak]

Here's the new family....
http://img245.imageshack.us/img245/1153/dscn1692lb2.jpg

Will post more tomorrow...off to have some fun :rock:

[Rjeso]

That's a great photo. Congrats again!

[ZoNeSeeK]

Aw nice, you guys look happy together :)

[Patrick]

Again, congratulations Karen!

[Nerak]

Thanks Patrick!!!

I can honestly say that I have never been happier.

I feel like this is what marriage and love should have always been and I was just in the wrong place last time!!!

[ZoNeSeeK]

Its good to hear everything going well.

Just on the marriage thing, a pet hate of mine is people who bag marriage out in general (and this pissed me off before I even got engaged). Crap like "You don't have sex when you're married" or "ALMOST 50% OF MARRIAGES END IN DIVORCE!" or "I dont want to get married because i dont want to be that couple that never talk to eachother".

The type of relationship and marriage you have is bought about by your own choices. If its shit, then youve made shit choices (not in terms of partner, but in terms of communication, compromise, priorities). Theres very few cases where blame can only be aportioned to one individual in shitty relationships.

My parents divorced when I was 5 and my father divorced again when i as 16, so I have a pretty clear idea of how marriages can end badly so get really pissed off when people don't own their mistakes.

[/end rant]

[Matt]

I totally agree with that, I think that people set themselves up for failure in a lot of cases by not knowing themselves and not fully committing to the relationship.

We've been on ten years and the sex only gets better. :lol:

and more often. :ninja:

[ZoNeSeeK]

At the moment we're getting finances from parents sorted out so we know how much we're dealing with :/ i hate this side of it. We want to elope but our parents and friends being at the wedding is incredibly important to us as they are such an important part of our lives.

[maerlyns_rainbow]

Congrats to both of you guys! The pic is adorable! How old are your kids Nerak?

[Nerak]

Sorry, missed this...for some reason, the site doesn't let me know when someone responds...although it's supposed to!!!

My daughter turned 8 in April and my son is 5!